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Category: She Knows Series

  • Rooting for Her — Except When You’re Not

    We say we root for other women. We mean it — and sometimes, before we can get there, something else moves through us first. This post is about that something else. About the complicated feeling that arrives in the gap between hearing good news and saying congratulations. About the difference between performing support and actually…

  • We Were Taught to Compare Before We Knew What We Were Doing

    We Were Taught to Compare Before We Knew What We Were Doing

    From the time we were girls, we were quietly measured against each other — who was prettier, smarter, thinner, more. This post traces the origins of female comparison culture through science, sociology, and personal experience, and asks the question most posts on this topic are afraid to ask: what if the problem isn’t that we…

  • The Friend Who Makes You Feel Small Without Ever Saying a Word

    The Friend Who Makes You Feel Small Without Ever Saying a Word

    Have you ever left a conversation with a friend feeling vaguely less than — without being able to explain why? She didn’t insult you. She didn’t say anything cruel. And yet. This post explores the quiet, often invisible phenomenon of social diminishment among women — the redirected compliment, the well-timed sigh, the comment that sounds…

  • The Mythology of the Catty Woman

    For decades, pop culture has sold us a story: women are rivals. Reality TV, Hollywood blockbusters, and social media taught us to expect competition, jealousy, and backstabbing from other women — but how much of it is true? This deep dive into the mythology of the “catty woman” traces how media shaped our expectations of…