How a Wild Night in the Midwest Gave Me a New Set of Eyes

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I did not expect Chicago to teach me something.

I went for work — the AONL conference, the kind of professional gathering that fills your mind and your notebook and sends you home with more ideas than you know what to do with. I packed for chilly April weather, made plans, and looked forward to the city. What I did not pack for was a tornado.

But the Midwest had other ideas.

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The Warning

The rain started almost as soon as we arrived in Chicago. Not the romantic kind of rain that makes cities look cinematic. The persistent, serious kind that makes you rethink your shoes and your plans in equal measure. But when we drove out to Michigan to visit my son — who is there for school — the weather took on a different character altogether.

That’s when the tornado warning came through.

I’m from California. I know earthquakes in the abstract way that people who grew up near fault lines know them — you prepare, you hope, and mostly, nothing happens. But tornadoes? Tornadoes existed for me only in movies. In the green-sky drama of disaster films. In other people’s stories. Not in mine.

The alert on my phone said the warning window ran until 10 p.m. And then — almost to the minute — it began. The wind came first. Then the rain, harder now. Then flashes of lightning threading through the sky like something alive. We watched it from the safety of my son’s place, grateful for walls and a roof and the ordinary miracle of shelter.

The weather alert approximated the tornado warning window almost to the minute. As soon as that time frame began — the wind came.

We decided to wait it out. Staying felt like the only sensible thing. And so we did — watching the clock, watching the sky, watching each other trying to look calm.

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The Drive

By ten o’clock, the rain had eased. The winds had settled into something that felt manageable. Our flight home was the next morning, and we still had to get back to Chicago. So we said our goodbyes, kissed our boy, and got on the road.

For about thirty-five minutes, it was fine.

And then it wasn’t.

The wind came back first. Then the rain — heavier this time, the kind that makes windshield wipers feel like a suggestion. And then the lightning. And the thunder rolling through in long, low waves. The roads were nearly empty, which should have felt peaceful but instead felt eerie. Just us, the dark, and the storm.

Then the hail started.

I want to be honest about something: my husband and I started to get on each other’s nerves. Not because of anything real — just fear looking for somewhere to land. Neither of us had ever driven through weather like that. We were both holding on, white-knuckling it in our own ways, and it came out sideways the way it sometimes does when you’re scared and you love someone and you don’t know what else to do with the feeling.

Fear has a funny way of finding the people closest to you. It wasn’t about us. It was about the hail and the dark and the not-knowing.

The four-hour drive took considerably longer. But we made it. We pulled into Chicago — late, wrung out, relieved in a way that felt almost physical — and we made it.

We got just enough sleep to be functional. And in the morning, we got to the airport on time.

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The Window Seat

My husband gave me the window seat.

It sounds like such a small thing. And it was. And it wasn’t.

We lifted off, and I pressed my face close to the glass the way I’ve done since I was a child — the way I always do when the ground starts to fall away and the world gets smaller and the sky gets bigger. And what I saw stopped something inside me.

Beauty. Pure, uncomplicated, staggering beauty.

The clouds stretched out below us like a world made entirely of light. Everything from the night before — the hail, the dark roads, the fear, the nerves, the exhaustion — all of it seemed to belong to a different life. From up there, none of it reached. From up there, there was only this: the soft topography of clouds, the pale gold where the sun caught them, the immensity of a sky that held it all without effort.

The view above the clouds made me forget the ordeal from the night before. Less than twelve hours separated the worst of the storm from the most beautiful sky I have ever witnessed.

I thought about that a lot on the flight home. How less than twelve hours had separated the worst of the drive from this. How the same sky that had threatened us the night before was now offering us something that felt like a gift. How I was sitting in a window seat with my whole heart open, watching the world from above, grateful in a way that felt new.

Gratitude is interesting like that. It seems to deepen in direct proportion to what came before it. I’m not sure I would have felt the beauty of that flight quite so sharply if not for the night we’d had. The storm gave the sky context. The fear gave the awe its weight.

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What I Brought Home

The conference was wonderful. Chicago was wonderful. My son is wonderful, and seeing him — even briefly, even in the middle of a tornado warning — was its own kind of gift.

But what I brought home from this trip was something I didn’t expect to pack.

A sense of awe that I can still feel, even now.

There is something about witnessing both extremes — the terrifying and the transcendent — within the same twenty-four hours that rearranges something in you. It reminds you that life is not one thing. That the same trip can hold fear and wonder. That the same sky can be a threat and an offering. That you can be exhausted and grateful and still moved by beauty, all at once.

I think about that window seat often. About the way the light fell across the clouds. About how small everything looked, and how that smallness was not diminishing — it was freeing. It reminded me that most of what feels enormous from the ground looks different from a little higher up.

Most of what feels enormous from the ground looks different from a little higher up.

I’m still collecting that moment. Holding it carefully. Letting it mean what it means.

If you’ve ever been through something hard and found yourself standing — or flying — on the other side of it, stunned by beauty you weren’t expecting, then you know what I mean.

The storm was real. And so was the sky. Both of them are part of the story. And I wouldn’t trade either one.